Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Self-worth - a dish cooked in your head without the pressure valve

Feeling of self worth ,its an accomplished emotion which not everyone experiences and not everyone knows what and when exactly do you get it. Its a rare phenomenon.
But ultimately its all cooked in your own head, if you want you can blow the whistle and let the pressure release, but yet most of the times we do not let it happen..
Why should people around you make you feel your worth, are we in a bazaar, or we assume conveniently being priced, marked with a value and the scale of the marking is also in our own head which tell us that you are worthful or worthless.
The 'being' the 'self' is an entity that exists because other similar entities surround it and make its existence worthwhile.
if the 'self' was just single it wouldn't be needing to value itself, as there is nothing and noone who asks for it or sells it.
You cannot auction self when you dont have buyers.. so the funda is simple..'being your ownself' is nothing but 'being how others want you to be', so keep juggling the 'self ' part and believe me its not worth it to have a feeling of self worth...as its actually not yours..confused right..
its quite complex, when you are not yourself only will you understand..

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